the truth

if there is one thing that i know its that people want to know that they are cared about
they want a sense of belonging and that people care.
when they are gone, deep down they want people to miss them
either to vaidate they're companionships or just to simply know that they are known.
we all want to be heard and aknowledged.
don't deny it.
and we all want to be understood.
i think thats the most frustrating thing.
people can say "oh i get it" or "i totally understand"
but no,
you cant.
that right there ladies and gentelmen is a bold faced lie. not the devious kind. but the seemingly necessary ones. which i guess is okay.
just don't base your life off of that theory.
and lastly, we all want to be loved.
love can make everything better,
if used correctly that is.
but love is the only shocking act left on this planet.
or so i believe to think.
but really, human nature can never really be fully understood. because it is far too complicated for us to take into account, life experiences and emotions of every single person on this earth.
but i believe to think that the only way we can begin to "understand" or even see how human nature works is to simply be kind.
once we are kind to people, they will open up, and in turn share things.
and as we come to find out, we have more in common with people.
even a random person walking down the street.
or a teacher.
but what im really trying to say is;
be kind
and follow the golden rule.
that'd make life so much easier.